OK, so what do YOU get out of this deal? You are giving up your home, your time with your kids, and so on, but what do you get for all of that? A divorce?
If it were me having gone through what I have already gone through, I would let her decide if she was willing to give all that stuff up before I just gave up.
I haven't given up. I left to give her time and room to think. I'm hoping and praying that she will feel it's worth it. That she will want me to come back. It was making her miserable for me to stay. I couldn't stand seeing her that way, so I left. I WANT to go home. I WANT to be with my kids. I WANT my family back. But I want her to want that too. And if I stayed she was filing the next day. I saw the paperwork. It may be inevitable, but I want to put off for as long as I can. Maybe I'm naive, but thats where I am.
M-34 W-31 2 S,11&11 1 D, 6 T 13 YEARS M 12 YEARS ILYBINILWY OCT. 2009 We are too close. All we see are smears of paint. The Lord sees the masterpiece He is painting.
