whatdidido has changed to whatamigoingtodo

[newmama]

feel hopeless, and I feel "done"...but I guess the fact that I'm here and going to a counselor says something differently.

OK whatami, I was just checking. And reading sandi's post helped me to see that I was viewing your description of your H as "excuses" instead of validating your "reality." (((HUGS))) I'm sorry that I thought you were "giving up" whatami!

YES you are trying! and if your H can wake up and see that you are desperate for his help and effort it will help you so much! So how to get through to him...