P.S. I am not encouraged to learn that Al and Chipper are calling it quits at 40 years!
Why? Not your life, not your concern.
No one here is an expert...or as far as I know a paid mental health professional. So it is up to you to determine if you think your H fits into an MLC.
A couple of points to be made,
Unless you come off as full blown pain in the asss. No one here is going to be mean on purpose. If something seems mean? Try and see if could be read another way. OR there might be be a reason to provoke a reaction.
If something stings? Then YOU might want to examine it. Case in point?
If I called you fat, and you were are and not happy about it, It is going to sting and I am a jerk.
If I called you fat, and you are but you are very ok with your body image or lets say you are skinny. Then even though I am a jerk, it isn't going to sting.
If something said 'stings' it is up to you to examine why it does...and hopefully not knee jerk lash out.
Welcome to the best worst place to be by the way.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK