Umm here's the story we usually hear:

Some trouble comes along, man gets depressed or withdraws emotionally.

Woman tells man she wants divorce.

Man begs, reasons, professes his undying devotion to wife.

Now, she has all the power.

Why? Because he is afraid... afraid she will leave.

Why isn't she afraid? Chances are things are going to be no bed or roses for her either. Sometimes there is an emotional or physical affair (or just the begining of an emotional affair). Sometimes wife is just bitter and resentful over not having her needs met.

And here you are: You are afraid. Fear is what is driving your actions. If it was driving hers, she'd fight for this M just like you are doing.


Greek asked you why you moved out of your own house. Good question, and is there a reason why you, the person who wants the M, moved out? Aside from fear?


M-47,W-40,No kids
D-filed 5/27/2010
Piecing - 10/21/2010
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