Thanks for the encouragement, LSG. I know you're going through a lot yourself.
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However, I still think that you should give MC an honest try. Do not look for ulterior motives from W. Do watch for indications that the MC is focused on the relationship and not just one person. My MC was not interested in helping us D but helping to keep the M intact. He did focus on us together. We also had a woman counselor there too. Also he had her sign a contract to work on the M. It did not work out for us, but keep your "hopes up" for you and your family.
I will give MC an honest try. They are pro-marriage and don't accept D as an option. Just have to constantly remind myself to be patient. I hope it will at least get her to open up and be honest with me. Communication is probably our biggest downfall. The same can be said about a lot of the sitch's here. It seems like it should be a relatively easy fix. I know better.
If she's not willing to at least try, I am ready to walk away.