thanks grace and FIB. i do need to step back from leaning on friends so much. i'm a talker (can you all tell? ;)), so my way of venting and dealing is talking. but you're right and i'll work to reduce it.

so far, did everything i set to do yesterday and the swimming was really nice.
today i got a lot of work done and tonight i'm going to help a friend clean out her closet.