Hanging in there, IDU. Thanks for asking. Haven't spoken to my W in 2 days; our last encounter was Saturday at my son's baseball game and I was furious with her due to my finding evidence of a PA. She knew something was wrong, but I refused to get in a discussion with her at the game. We drove off in separate cars afterward without a word.
Sunday my other son had a baseball game but W didn't show up; I guess she preferred to hang out with her boyfriend.
I called the OM's wife on Sunday just to make her aware of what I knew; we hadn't spoken since last summer. She and the OM haven't commenced any divorce proceedings; she's actually been doing a decent job dbing on her own but said her husband has said they are done.
It was a very nice weekend for me and the kids.
Today my W sent me an instant message: "Hello! How is ya?"
I ignored it. Unreal. I guess she thinks she can try to make nice with me even though she knows I am pi$$ed.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09