I still don't understand why you don't confront the guy, especially when he mentions your kids. They are YOUR kids, not his. He has NO right to start thinking of a life with them.
I guess I don't trust myself to remain composed around him. Being near him would make me furious. It would do myself and my children no good at all to potentially face charges. Believe me Bond, it has crossed my mind. I know where he lives.
I certainly don't see it making any difference at all in the way my W feels.
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