The year of not my problem

[Thinker]

Hi AJ,

Looks like you and I are working through the same issues. My stbx wants Soooooo badly to blame this all on me that (much like your stbx) she is angry and pushing and asking for the divorce, and at the same time acting like the complete victim.

I'm finally the one who is pushing the D forward. I am filing now, and my W is going to use this to be able to tell her whole family, friends, etc how agressive and thoughtless I am and how she is just the poor little victim.

This past weekend she went out in the evening and didn't return that night. The next day (before coming home) she called while I was out having fun with the kids and complained about how hard this was on her and how much she missed them.

Ugh.

I know exactly what you are dealing with.

Stay strong.