Hey Mila...just caught up on your thread. I always hated it when my H would get me upset. I guess the upsetting parts were always that he seemed so happy without me. I would be in tears many times when he would come around, but then ok when I wouldnt see him. Sounds like your H is trying to find a way to still be in your life...my H would always volunteer to do stuff around the house and as hard as it was for me to see him, I would let him most of the time because I knew it would bother the OW haha. But I did learn to do alot of things myself. I hated asking him to do stuff for me. It was a great learning experience! I learned to mow and trim my yard, I even fixed my dryer once when it tore up! I was determined NOT to ask him to do it!!!
I think you are doing great. Detaching is very hard. I dont think it was something I learned to do very well. Hope you are having a great day!!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
haha. But I did learn to do alot of things myself. I hated asking him to do stuff for me. It was a great learning experience! I learned to mow and trim my yard, I even fixed my dryer once when it tore up! I was determined NOT to ask him to do it!!! 
