You are one of the very lucky ones....listen, at the risk of sounding a little harsh; you spent the weekend at aterrific resort, your kids had a blast, you pampered yourself, your hubby was great......so WHAT if he did not mention your job????? Perhaps he wanted to keep the weekend posit haive!!!! I sense a little nitpicking..... How much connection did you have during the last three years? How much connection does a "normal" couple actually have with our hectic schedules.....patience grasshopper.......you are where most of us have dreamed of being....enjoy it