As far as exposure to the OMW - well I think I am going to see how this plays out for a bit - wait and see how long the phone block discovery takes if at all and take from there- my personal therapist has made a good point I think in that exposure could be a significant setback as she would probably see me as hurting a friend and elevate resentment even further - so it's a wait a see approach from here - she blows up on the block and that's my cue to take it to the next level. I told her I trust her - as she doesn't trust me in the least as to my 180's being real - so a bit of in your face - let's see how she does......
I agree - I think you can hold that card for now. Wait to see if W really takes seriously the boundary you put down. If you get a whiff later that she is playing you, you could use that card at that time.
Remember Reagan to the Russians ~~~ Trust, but Verify.
Well done, Dave! Greek
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