Thanks so much Sandi. I needed that. When I try to explain something about my husband, it does come across as excuses.......I'm just trying to explain more so that maybe someone can help me more.....

Thanks so much for understanding. I feel less alone.

M 39
H 39
1 son, 7

Multiple affairs before/during/and after separation, came clean, went to Retrouvaille, forgave each other, Piecing for over a year, same problems exist, back to counseling