CityGirl, I can't argue with anything you said. You're right.
I like what you wrote to my W. That's a good way to say it. Would you suggest emailing that to her or leaving her a voice mail?
What else can I do to give her an idea of what it will be like when I'm not around. For over two months I haven't initiated any conact with her (other than the flowers). I simply respond to her emails. When you say she might not like it in theory, are you saying she doesn't like knowing I'm still around? Why would she think I'm still around though? I guess she just knows.
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch