whatami, I hope this isn't too rude but I want to be honest- I have de ja vus reading about how hopeless you sound regarding your marriage- it reminds me of how my WH told me from Jan-March 09 that he was doing everything he could and just didn't feel it. He was convinced it was gone. Then he left me for OW.
NOT that you are having an affair! But I wonder if you are asking for permission to be done with your marriage in a way...like justifying why you want to end it.
Am I on to something? That you are just DONE? Or am I misreading you.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
