xW created this crazy situation we are now in, but she seems to not want to accept her share of the costs, both monetary and otherwise, that these "games" demand.
But that is just who she is, and how she has been even during our M. She feels that I, as the H and now former-H, am supposed to shoulder the greater costs, on her behalf -- for anything and everything. Funny thing is that while I gladly accepted the greater burdens while M'ed to her, now that we are no longer M'ed -- and especially since she went and M'ed someone else -- I am under absolutely no obligation to her, not directly, even if she is the mother of my children.
Some day she might figure this out. I eventually did (thankfully).
