Ironically, XW has her own 3 BR house now. I don't have the key to it. The house is in my name and she vacated. So, when I change the locks, BAM: I'm an a$$hole again.
My X tried that too, about 2 years after after he had moved out he wanted a key to the house because it was on the market and his name was still on it. X: Give me a key, this is my house as much as it is yours. Me: No X: My name is on it, I demand a key. Me: No X: You have to, it is like a landlord situation and I HAVE to have a key. If you had a landlord they would have a key. Me: No
Guess who didn't get a key! LOL
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
