Yeah I know I am his back-up plan just like he is her back-up plan when it comes to her H. I know totally sick and crazy. I thought about trying to talk to him and finding out where to go from here, but I know he won't talk to me and will just say "I don't know".

If it wasn't for S, it would be so much easier. I would just D, no questions asked, but S complicates everything. I wouldn't trade S for the world so I don't want him to have his whole world change again just when he has gotten used to it...

Originally Posted By: Kalni
no need to hurry into final decisions unless you feel like it...


Right now I am going to just chill out and see because as many know on this site, things change very quickly.


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52
2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg
3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89