Re-Connecting

[Fightingforher]

I got home from work lastnight and I spoke with my W. We had a conversation about D and how we would handle the preliminary stuff. We even talked about how I've changed the past couple of months. She was confused on why I was feeling better about our situation.

I explained to her that I've been reading self help books, joined this support group, GAL, etc.... I told her that I needed to move on with or without her. I've been feeling sorry for myself lately and almost forgot who I was. She didn't seem like she wanted to talk about D.

I took my son to the park and we had a blast. My W went out for a few hours and called to see if my son and I could meet her for dinner. I respectfully declined because I didn't want to talk about any of this in front of our son.

I got home and a couple hours later my W came in. She said she would like to go to dinner with her family tomorrow night and she would like me to come. She then looked at me and said she wants to work on our marriage. She said that she really wants this to work. She mentioned that she can't offer herself to me romantically at this time because she is still angry and is working through that.

I didn't show much enthusiasm but I was happy to hear her say that she wanted to try. I told her that I'm willing to work on this too, but sex is important to me but I would be patient.

In previous posts I was told to only believe 1/2 the words W says. Is this something that you guys would see as a breakthrough or a typical up/down....