So ... H called re $ stuff ... he's taking on emailing the broker and arranging for some pics of the cottage ... total 180 for him! Told him I appreciated him taking it on and that it lifted a lot of pressure off of me. I also mentioned that we have a few things hanging over our heads re $, and he mentioned too that we need to figure out some scheduling stuff re making time available to do the work at the cottage.

I mentioned that he must find it confusing to deal with me now, since I am open to negotiations and now understand that it takes time for two people to figure out what works. He agreed that dealing with me now and dealing with me pre-bomb is waaaay different. He invited me for supper, and I said that I had a meeting this evening, but I could come for a quick supper ... I also forgot my change of clothes.

Baby steps ... it is what it is ... just supper with the fam. Going to keep the conversation really light and let him talk if there's something he wants to talk about. No R or M talk at all!

Peace
PEI

Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc