I also put out the "don't let me be lazy" to a friend who just yesterday confided that his M is pretty much out the door.
It was sad and sweet--he apologized profusely for not being there for me much this year, but the problem was it was hitting too close to home for him and W.
And then--there I am--handing out DB advice like I know what I'm talking about: Create the Crisis. You don't have to live in Limbo. In-house Separation.
Boy, the things you learn that you wish you didn't have to.
The weekend turned out great. A bike ride came together, followed by dinner and good company; the Memorial Day Parade (biggest one in the state!) was great, and the aforementioned friend took me to the lake to hang out to Create A New Tradition. (as X and I had hosted a big BBQ after parade)
Then I debated awhile and decided it would be good to wake up on this rainy Tuesday, which is the 1st, which is Monthly Bombaversary Day with my Town Meeting Escort friend (need an acronym for him!) so I put that into place.
And now I am at home, ostensible "working" but doing OKAY at being in house on a dreary day, and not fretting or flopping or freaking out. Doing OKAY.
Guys--I have come so far in these 10 months. So far. Would never have believed it possible. Would NOT be possible without all of you. Still not convinced that I'm glad to be saved yet, but I can almost see that happening.
Can I ask for tech help? Gardener--tinyurl my two threads? "how to do a 180 when you've been too independent" "next steps"?
Thought I was more computer savvy than that, but oh well--learning to ask for help!
