Grace-My D & I have seen Lifehouse in concert several times. My D gave me their new CD for Mother's Day. "It is what it is" is the other song that keeps constantly playing in my brain...even when I'm trying to sleep...ugh!!! I'll post the lyrics.

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I think that some if not most of the things we had in common with them and mattered to us still do. They just don't want/can't to see it.
I'm not sure what matters to my H anymore and I'm not sure we have much in common anymore. My H has a whole different set of priorities now than when I married him. Maybe he just put on an act for all those years...who knows.
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What you said about giving your H a way out resonates with me big time. Truth is, he's always had that though.
True that he has always had a way out but I believe he will now not feel as guilty because he can think that I was the one who wanted to the D.

You have inspired me to put together a list of goals and things I would like to do. I think I need to fine tune it and get a little more specific before I post it.

glam-I'm sorry to hear you had a setback again. Good thing you are able to have no expectations. I think that was my problem...even though I tried to have no expectations, I still did.

We can plan for the 24th. I would love to meet you at Catalina but it is my D's birthday that day. Let me know what your plans are...maybe we can figure something else out to do. After all, it is good for us to stay busy...right! smile