Well I feel a lot better now knowing that both of you ladies, who are a lot tougher with your Hs than I was/am, still want your Hs to see your babies as often as they want! Like I said, i regret not limiting WH's visits.

And Piano,don't worry, your bub will be awake more often...they seem to sleep a lot the first few weeks then gradually have more and more awake time!

Oh and the people that don't know I am separated are my co-workers. I was in a mommy group with several of them and they don't know either.

BTW good plan to be the hot mama!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004