Well I feel a lot better now knowing that both of you ladies, who are a lot tougher with your Hs than I was/am, still want your Hs to see your babies as often as they want! Like I said, i regret not limiting WH's visits.
And Piano,don't worry, your bub will be awake more often...they seem to sleep a lot the first few weeks then gradually have more and more awake time!
Oh and the people that don't know I am separated are my co-workers. I was in a mommy group with several of them and they don't know either.
BTW good plan to be the hot mama!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004