SCH - I don't blame you that you feel that way, I also think that I wouldn't want to just leave everything behind and move away with him without knowing where your relationship is. The "reconnecting" should be done first at least to the point that you somewhat trust him again, before you uproot your whole family and follow him into the unknown.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO