It was a good weekend. I didnt mention anything about OW or his A or anything about the past. It was a conscious effort. I made sure the kids thanked him "for his present" trying to make him feel like a good dad and family man because I know he needs that after all he put us through. The did tell a couple of times it was the best present ever!! He looked touched.
I could see him thinking of all the times he COULD have had times like these before but never did...
One thing I didnt like was that he didnt even ask me anything about my work. He knew what's going on but didnt ask and I didnt bring it up. We are definitely lacking ocnnection. The ability to just share thoughts and fears and dreams for simple and not so simple things...
I dont know if it is normal, there is a wall bewteen us. We are good together but I feel we have long ways to go. And it has been 7 months now...
