SCH - You may be right about this "escape and start over". I just remembered how your H didn't want anyone to know that it was his choice to leave you...yup he may be too embarrassed...
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO