Mila it is definitely a control thing with your h regarding the emails. I think it's rather comical. Can you respond to these emails when I send them. Kind of reminded me of myself in the beginning with my own h, hence the control that I am trying so desperately to relinquish. Bad habit to break!

I love going to the movies by myself too. I did this before h too. I can watch what I want when I want and enjoy the popcorn all by myself. Love it!

Here are a few more GAL ideas to add to your list:

Hot Pink stilletos you can pick up cheap online and just have them lying about when your h stops in

Facial check local beauty schools for cheap prices

Lace lingerie to wear to bed at night and casually drop it on the floor when h is over oooops fell onto the floor

Satin Sheets summer is coming up

Victoria Secret or Bath and Body Works lotions and sprays. I use the spray as an air freshener too. Usually can pick up for around $5 each

Spa pillow for your evening bubble baths. I like Black Amethyst Bath and Body Works Bubble Bath and then slip into that lace lingerie before bed

Pick up some nice workout clothes to go with that gym membership. I personally like Nike and can get them on sale at Macy's or Nordstrom Rack.

Take yourself to lunch and conveniently be leaving when your h arrives. Dressed to the hilt. Black boots, Hot Pink Stilletos, pencil skirt are all good choices.

Enjoy your day! Ha Ha!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

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