We haven't been living together for over a year, but a bunch of his junk is still at the house and I would love to have it just thrown out. I have most of it in boxes, but getting him to come and get it, well he won't do that because "that is more he will have to move back when he moves back". Like that was ever going to happen.
I have kept pretty calm. I have 1.5 days at work. I sent H three texts when I found out. The worst thing I said is I asked what I have done to have him treat me like a jerk. I mostly asked a bunch of questions I know I will never get an answer to. I really feel like calling my L and just filing this week, but I know that is just emotions so I am going to try to let myself calm down and see where it goes. I am so mad at him, his parents, his brothers, everyone!
Honestly, I still don't want to file for D because I just don't want to be divorced, but I think it is probably for the best...I just don't know, and I don't want S to have to go back and forth.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89
