I think you are right - I do think that perhaps XH wanted to see if maybe things could turn around in his head. In fact, he said as much. The thing is - it was never going to happen if he was still contact OW. He really was having his foot in both camps. The other camp won!!!
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived