Once a spouse starts an affair they throw EVERY EXCUSE they can dream up to JUSTIFY LEAVING and RUNNING AWAY from their PROBLEMS with some OTHER MAN
They buy the cart first, then they start digging up horses to put in front of it.
The excuses however are very common :
1. I am not in love with you 2. I am not attracted to you 3. I tried and it didn't work
Well guess what? This is how a woman will feel who has went outside her marriage to have her emotional needs met
Let me repeat that
Women who go outside their marriage to have their emotional needs met cannot feel attachment to their husband
The problem is, there are two solutions :
a. Abandon my family and run off with the OM meeting my needs currently b. End my affair and work with my spouse to have him meet my emotional needs again
A is obviously an escapist fantasy that rarely if every works long term (less than 1% according to Phil McGraw)
B is the tried and true method advocated by most marriage therapists...
YOU Ken. YOUR JOB is to NOT get INTIMIDATED by your wife's LAME-ASS and TRANSPARENT EXCUSES to avoid B. GOT IT?
