Thanks, guys. I'm better. I was just getting angry about finances. Money doesn't really matter and the fact of the matter is that he would have to have a QDRO drawn up if we got divorced to get any of his retirement money out. Before then, he needs both spouses to sign. In my state, retirement funds are marital property. Him changing his email address does nothing... I was just wondering what they were planning. Who cares in the long run? The Lord is on my side, so who can be against me?
Forever, so sorry... stagnation stinks, doesn't it?
My sitch is only 2 months from bomb and approx 5 months from when H started showing signs (HS reunion) - although I think this has been under the surface for 7 years already... but 2 months in from bomb is not very long and for it to be stagnant already, it's just so frustrating.
