Did your H come from an affectionate, touchy feely family? It sounds like he has never learned these skills or their importance. That's what I think he needs to bring up with a C.
I agree with Lotus that in your unhappiness you seem to be rewriting history re your feelings slightly.
Allen, I look forward to reading your reply to my question re intimacy with your W.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
