just heard a funny expression "You can catch more flies with honey than vinegar" "Yeah but you can catch more with manure!"
Hmm...honey= acting sweet and taking the higher road
vinegar=NC and being angry, cold
manure= uh, s#!t happens? maybe allowing the natural consequences to take place and speak for themselves! You want to be a part time dad? Here you go. You want to try and stay friends with your S' mother? Sorry- no can do. But we can chat for a few minutes at each exchange about how S is doing (gee- just like I would ask a daycare provider about how S did! Glorious!) Here is the crap you dealt yourself, WH!
^^^ I like this, NM!
Manure = facing Reality.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
