My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[ken5140]

I hope you're right. The strange thing is, it doesn't seem to bother her. I come home after several hours with the kids and she is happily watching TV. When I put the kids to bed, she says goodnight to them but not to me. I feel like she is so heartless towards me these days, except that she does cook and clean.

Tomorrow I will go to my 7 yo daughter's birthday party with her and then I plan to work on that TSO. It's been a year now and I'm so frustrated. I'm starting to wonder if this marriage is possible to save. She has told me that she is just not in love with me. She doesn't have a problem with my looks; she is just not attracted to my personality. I wish she'd at least be willing to go to counseling or something, but she's not. She has told me repeatedly, "I tried for 11 years!" referring of course to the 11 years up until OM came along, because we have now been married for 12 years.