I'm taking off my ring April 9

[AmyBel]

Well. Things went down as predicted. I'm still standing. Still working on the things I need to (lawyer, moving, etc.)

And the emotional things I need to (grieving, mostly.)

I decided to specifically open the door to a future reunion, IF she moved to be near me, AND I was clear that I was NOT working on a friendship with her right now. (She's having a really tough time coping with her decision. Keeps wanting connection, and friendship. seems kinda weird to me that she's more destroyed by this than I am.)

Who knows what the future will hold marriage-wise. I do know that the future will involve me continuing to move toward being the best person I can be.

THANK YOU to the divorce-busting concepts and the good people on this discussion board. I can't tell you how much of a difference to my well being you have made.

Thank you Thank you Thank you!