Here I am again documenting my day and the things that have happened, now I realize it may seem like I am using this site as more of a journal but that is not the case, I am documenting the things that happen so I can go back and see the positives and negatives but I am also hoping for feedback from the Vets because I am not sure if I am just wanting to see improvement so much that I am imagining it. Anyways here was my day. After the above post H and I had some other email contact in regards to the house and kids, no phone contact at all. Our D15 had a ringette game so we were going to see each other there but no matter what I was not going to approach him, so I made sure I was sitting in the stands with the other parents before he even got there. I saw him come in and stand across the arena from us and I figured that was where he was going to stay. However much to my suprise he came over to where we were sitting and actually sat beside me! I was shocked, we had been at our son's hockey games in the last few weeks and he would not even stand anywhere near me. I did not react to him sitting beside me, I just said hi and we had some nice conversation about our house, he told me about this fight with our S10 the previous night, as well we talked about his work. When the game ended he left first and when I walked into the lobby I sat away from him, within a couple of minutes he was standing across from me and a mutual friend stood beside him, the 3 of us talked a bit, and I was also talking to a mother beside me, but one time when I looked over at him I caught him watching me, he quickly looked away. So while I do not want to read into this too much, it could just be that we will have a good "divorced" relationship I am hopeful that in time he will remember the good parts of our marriage.
m-34 w-33 d-15 s-10 m-11 years t-16 years bomb - Feb 24/10