Hi AC, Just sending you my support. I think when we come here we're all grieving the loss of what we expected our marriages to be/become. I think a lot of us have to work through a lot of sad and disillusionment before we can take action sometimes. It's just part of the process and we all work through it in our own time. Frankly to me, it almost sounds like you're getting a little cranky yourself today. And you know that's not likely a bad thing! You even said 'BS'! In your whole thread I don't remember you swearing once. Did you know that? Maybe I've missed something... You know even in my little sitch, I don't think it was until I started getting angry that I started doing a couple of things that made my H sit up and take notice. Don't know if that helps, or if you feel fits in your sitch but just thought I'd share the thought. Anyways whatever stage you're at, whatever you're feeling we're all here for you and want the best for you. Hang in there. PG.
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.