Originally Posted By: newmama

About the newborn cap- that brings back great memories! S wore a cap for the first 2 months! WH was obsessive about it- it was funny since S was born in the summer. But I didn't object...dads need their space to be dads without our interference (unless they REALLY screw up!)


So true. We all learn by trial and error when it comes to parenting. And as walk-away dads, their lessons are further apart. You will be leading, G, but give WH space when she comes to do it 'his way'. And don't be too shocked, like I was, if he is very clumsy in the beginning holding her and everything. Look the other way! smile

Re the cap, yeah I just popped a little green and grey striped number on my bub - we went for our first walk on this late-Autumn day.


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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