I understand, Abbey. I think everything is going south. She has been talking to the OM on a daily basis since I left for three weeks. She doesn't want to talk to me, but wants to talk to him daily. And he is supposed to "just be a friend" when "I need a friend" and he is supposed to be getting back together with his W. BS.
I cannot ask for a D over the phone, so need to wait until we are back together.
She is burning me big time as she desperately tries to get out of her depression. And she does not even know what she is doing. How sad.
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012