you can wonder why he says this and that until the cows come home and will never have an appropiate answer...you both are not in the same page, what you remember he's forgotten, what you think happened is a different story in his mind... once x accused him (the first time he left) that I made him leave and rent a room 2x as far from work... he actually blamed that on me! phluease...
Don't get all hung up about anything he says, and he's going to say stupid stuff, trust me, and there you will be all riled up and hurt... you know in your heart you did your best to make it work and made amends... if he didnt' stick around to see it then it's his loss, stop blaming yourself... the issues you mentioned were the same issues with me as well...except that I did work FT and still did 90% of the work at home... they will never fully recognize how hard we had it, their mind is too wrapped up in themselves.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
