About the kids...it is just heart breaking. When your H comes out of it, he will have a lot of talking and explaining to do.
As for now, you are really doing well (IMO) handling their comments and questions. But will they ask your H too? Surely he will call them back or drop by this week!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004