Have the Vets seen success stories while in here? I've only been a member for a short period of time and I've seen stories much more complicated then mine.
I guess i'm looking for some re-assurance that there is hope and issues like this can be fixed in due time.
You remind me of a man who wants to know the answer from the girl "before" he takes the risk of purposing.
To be honest, we do not see a lot of success stories here b/c most people wait until D is being talked about before they wake up and get serious about doing something. However, Greek, Puppy, and I...are all success stories. Maybe some others who have responded to you....IDK.
You can't measure your M by how many have been successful at DBing, you measure it by how much it's worth. You mentioned you son.....there's your value right there.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
