My needs:

1. To be with a partner that has his own personality and thoughts and feelings and interests and friends.

2. To feel sexually desired by my husband and to feel sexual desire toward him.

3. To feel desire to be around my husband.

4. To laugh with my husband.

5. To not feel sad when I'm with my husband.


M 39
H 39
1 son, 7

Multiple affairs before/during/and after separation, came clean, went to Retrouvaille, forgave each other, Piecing for over a year, same problems exist, back to counseling