Took the kids to the beach today, and it did not cost me anything.
The time the kids get to spend with you is priceless. They may not realize it now, but they will.
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W was suppose to watch kids for me while I worked, but she was gone when I came home, so I had to take them with me. I guess she was with him. I was annoyed, but what can I do about it. I do not know what boundaries to put on her and how since we are divorcing.
You will drive yourself mad if you continue to mind read and try to guess what she is doing. Trust me, I have been there. I still go there some after all this time, but I try to make myself quit. Nothing good will come of it. I'm wondering a little bit today where she may be, but I turn my thoughts and attention to the kids and having a great time with them. That's all that counts. If she is out doing what I imagine she is, it's all the more reason I don't need her in my life. But, I don't know and I never will. My energy is best spent elsewhere.
You are handling yourself great under the circumstances. Keep it up. I think you are starting to realize you will be okay, even good, without her if she goes on with the D.
Again, be there for your kids-I know you are-and take care of yourself.
