Libby has made some excellent points. Things I have seen myself since H and ow live together.
The sooner you can let go so that ow has to fulfill all your H's needs the sooner reality hits for both of them and when/if they wake up, they'll realize there was no place like home.
This is your time, Mila. Your time to find yourself again. You can't control another person only yourself. That will be a hard reality for your H. It's obvious he likes calling the shots. You get to call the shots now concerning your own life.
Libby is so right. Buckle up, the drama isn't anywhere near over yet.
