I agree - great perspective - awesome post. I have been going back and forth about briging up/confronting H about his A again, but in the DB'ing books, it seems like it doesn't really encourage that. Every time I do- he denies it. Maybe this is the way to go. I don't want to push him away and twoards her. Though, it's crazy, because he is the one doing something wrong.
Me:36 H:38 Together: 20 years Married: 16 years Kids: 13 & 10 yr. old Discovered affair: 1/10 H denies affair. Refuses to save marraige. Divorce filed: December 2010
