Robx- I agree about the "best for the kids" thing. I've tried very hard to use them in any way because they do not deserve to be drug into this. The whole reason she is trying to push this through so quickly (I believe) is that she is afraid that kids reaction might force her to second guess her erratic and irrational actions.
As far as the hysterectomy goes, I think in her case the surgery caused her to rethink (over-think?) a lot of things in her life. While my wife does have hormonal issues, the surgery did not add to them as this was only a partial and she still has her ovaries, which is why she did not have hormone therapy post op. However, even if you were 100% positive that you never ever under any circumstances wanted another child, having that situation taken care of for you has to be emotional.
Also, she does have thyroid issues as well. So that alone spells hormonal imbalance.
Puppy Dog Tails- thank you for the encouragement. I only spoke to her today in regards to when she is bringing the kids over. I did not bring up anything else. When she answered my questions I got off the phone. When she dropped the kids off, I said hello and goodbye and what time I'd have them back to her house. So other than keeping the house up and operational, continuing to build my relationship with my kids, and moving forward with my life outside of the M, is there anything I should be doing?
