Glam - thank you...yes it is devastating to see how a person you think you know as well as yourself can become someone else
About the credit card - no he didn't say "I need travel miles to see OW". He said "I want to get travel miles"...but of course it will be for that...it's very expensive for him and her to fly to see each other and so far she has been paying for it...unless you get a seat sale it's about $500 and they have been doing it about once a month and this month 2x - 1x him there and 1x her here. How long can you go spending money like that?
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO