Don't you think a good hint for you to know...is when she's ready to move back into your bedroom? Seems that should be one of the consequences of not sharing a bed with you....is not having sex.
I guess I can understand that. Do you have any insight into how long or what it would take for her to come back into our bedroom. Since you were kind of in a similar situation I was just wondering what made you go back? When you trusted his changes were for sure or what? I know that everyone is different but I would like to have a little of her perspective so that I can understand a little of what she is thinking/going through.
Originally Posted By: sandi2
If she's flirting, then that is good....but it doesn't necessarily mean she's ready for sex yet. When "she" starts ML to you, that will be a pretty good indication that's she's in the mood. Otherwise, you best continue to play it cool.
I am trying to keep it cool. Not easy, with the way we are interacting so well and she and I have been on diets losing weight and I just feel drawn to her like when we were when we were first married. I wish I knew if she feels that at all. But I am also afraid of knowing the answer. One of the hardest things I have delt with in the DB'ing is the not asking how she feels about our R. I ask her how she is doing every day, but that is just a general question to see how her day went. Leads to good conversation.
