They aren't really recognizable while they are in MLC. It's scarry to even think about how much they change. I think that is so dissappointing to the LBS. It's really hard to accept this new h and the decisions that they have made. Hard to process.

Wow, 36 yrs. It will take some time getting beyond your h. He has been a huge part of your life and you in his.

Did your h really say that about the credit card mileage to see ow or is that your assumption? They are hard to recognize at this stage of the journey.

Keep focused on you and D.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"